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Last month while in Las Vegas with my Biggest Little Teacher (BLT) enjoying some much needed R&R, I had another funny and inspiring conversation with my nine-year old daughter.  She had just gotten the lead role as Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz musical, and was feeling like a star!  We were walking through the Mandalay Bay casino where we were staying and she was dazzled by all the lights and sounds.  She turns to me with a big smile and asked, “I wonder if they have a Wizard of Oz show here?”  I told her they probably did and that Vegas has lots of really great shows.  She got quiet for a second and then looked up to me and asked, “So do you think I could perform here one day?”  I told her, “Of course you could.  You can do anything you want to do!”  In the same breath she asks, “So, will you help me pound the sidewalk?”  I was confused for a second, and asked her what she meant.  She said, “You know, help me to get gigs.”  Then it hit me… “Do you mean pound the pavement?”  She gave a boisterous giggle and said, “Yeah!”

So there you have it!!  A 9 year old who is visualizing herself pounding the pavement in Vegas to get gigs… where there is passion, there are no limits!!!

I watched the movie not too long ago and found it to be incredibly inspiring.  Nelson Mandela’s actions of forgiveness are breath taking.  I am inspired to the core by his example.  His ability to truly forgive and see the Big Picture, changed a nation and the world.  I could not help but wonder if I was capable of such unconditional love and forgiveness?

In the movie Nelson Mandela states he was kept strong during his 30 years in prison by this very poem.  May it strengthen your soul as it has mine, repeatedly.

Out of the night that covers me
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever Gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me Unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll
I AM THE MASTER OF MY FATE
I AM THE CAPTAIN OF MY SOUL

~William Henley

A couple months ago my Biggest Little Teacher (BLT) was telling me about how her school was doing the Wizard of Oz as the summer Musical Theatre program.  She beamed, looked me straight in the eye and said, “I want to be Dorothy.”  I patted her on the head and smiled at her with encouragement.  However, on the inside my fears were triggered and I thought to myself, “What if she doesn’t get it? Oh My Gosh, what would I tell her?  How can we mend her broken dream?”  But since I always encourage BLT to go with her heart and go for her passions, we talked about the part often over the next few weeks.

As auditions came closer, BLT began to open her horizons and get excited about a few other parts as well.  Not sure if it was out of fear or simply the desire to act, sing, and dance no matter what.  I figured it was good to stay focused on the main desire and not be too attached.  When I picked her up from musical theatre last week, I was greeted by BLT with a HUGE smile and a coy, “Guess what Mommy?  Guess which part I got?”  I said, “Ummm, the Good Witch Glinda?”  She shook her head and nearly burst out, “I got Dorothy!!!”  It was a celebration of high-five’s, kisses and hugs. As we walked to pick up her things, she told me to come check out her bag.  Inside were a pair of sparkly ruby red slippers!!!  I asked her if she had worn them for the audition. She said, “No, I didn’t wear them, I just brought them for good luck!”  Oh man, did it WORK!!!  That’s living the dream.

When we got in the car I asked BLT, “So, how was the audition?  What did you have to do?”  She told me they did a very small acting part and that was it.  I was a little shocked to think they made the decision so easily.  But, later that evening while talking about how exciting it was going to be playing the part of Dorothy she says, “You know Mom, I was ready to be any part they gave me.  Before the audition they asked me 3 questions; 1 – name, 2 – Grade, 3 – Why I wanted to be in the Wizard of Oz.  I told them, ‘Jade, 4th grade, and I want to be a part of the musical because I love to act, dance and sing.  I am excited to be part of this.  I will do my best with any part you give me.”  I stopped walking and asked BLT if I heard her correctly about “any part you give me”.  She said, “Yeah, I said that.  Mom, I just wanted to be in it.”

Once again BLT teaches me a lesson… Put my heart into my dreams and keep the dream alive in anyway that feels right, while at the same time remaining unattached.  Be ready to accept whatever gifts may come.  Its in the “letting go” dreams come true!!!

Thanks BLT!!   I love you!!!

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Recently, I was having a wonderful conversation with my friend about life and work.  He was telling me about a time in the past when he had taken a job in which his friend told him, “you can make $7,500 a month!”  (Now, we’ve all been approached by this friend at one time or another.  And, like most, we take the bait at least once.  The job sounded easy enough and wow, what an income!)  So, my friend eagerly signed up.

He confessed,  “I lasted 4 weeks, and I just couldn’t do it.  The job seemed easy enough, but I couldn’t make a sale.”  The job required him to get on the phone and sell modifications.  It would seem with this economic climate, it would be an easy sell, “but I tanked!”  He went on to tell me about one woman in the office who used the full “fear tactic” to get the sale and she was good at it.  Another successful guy was super lax and would simply ask for their credit cards. It was like magic.  His routine would go something like this, “Yeah…I hear your home is in foreclosure…well then you need this modification…. what is your credit card number…” and viola! Sale!

My friend was a bit discouraged in himself.  He blamed his “failure” on the fact that he was way too detailed and got the potential clients confused in all the minutiae.  He figured he gave too many facts and scared the customer off.  He concluded by saying, “I’m just not a salesman.”

Because I’ve gotten to know my friend pretty well, and know how amazing he is in his “element”, I asked him, “Were you passionate about selling modifications?”  He paused, and gave a crooked half-smile, “no not really.”  I believe there is a ‘salesman’ in all of us.  We are constantly selling ourselves in one aspect or another all day long.  Whether it is in the quality of our daily tasks, the distribution of information, the winning of a debate, etc.  And when we are passionate about something at our core, we can sell absolutely anything!  Sure, some people are passionate about the act of selling itself, and make great salesmen.  Those are the people who give credit to the cliche, “Selling Ice to Eskimo’s.”  The key ingredient to being a wonderful salesman is to be passionate about your product.  You have to feel its benefits in your core.

For me,  when I talk about the powers of the mind and spirit and how effective they are in meditation to preserve peace of mind and lasting good health, I cannot stop myself!  I feel a wave of excitement and passion that I cannot fake or pull out of a hat.  I love telling people how and where to get it. My friend looked at me and his smile got bigger and bigger.  He knew exactly what I was talking about as he has been living in his passion for over a decade.  He has an amazing business teaching people about the music recording industry, and inspiring others to live in their passion!

Where are you a passionate salesman?

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